Honestly with Bari Weiss

How to Live After Profound Loss

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Aug 10, 2023
Colin Campbell, author of "Finding the Words," shares his heartbreaking journey through grief after losing his two children in a tragic car accident. He criticizes societal norms around grief, calling them cruel and inadequate. Colin discusses the importance of open dialogue about loss and how avoiding the topic only leads to isolation. He introduces concepts like 'hate du jour' to cope with emotional turmoil, and emphasizes embracing grief as a path toward healing. Colin also reflects on family love, fostering, and finding purpose post-loss.
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ANECDOTE

The Accident

  • Colin Campbell, his wife, and their teenage children were driving to Joshua Tree when a drunk driver hit them.
  • His children, Ruby and Hart, died in the crash, while Colin and his wife survived.
INSIGHT

Grief as Fear

  • After the accident, Colin experienced intense fear, especially in his home.
  • The void left by his children was terrifying, and he feared losing his mind.
ADVICE

Finding the Words

  • Avoid saying "there are no words" to grieving people as it often shuts down conversation.
  • Instead, offer your presence and listen to them talk about their grief and loved ones.
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