

Ep. #632: Esther Perel, Glenn Loury, Daniel Bessner
5 snips Apr 22, 2023
This engaging discussion features Esther Perel, a renowned psychotherapist specializing in relationships, alongside Glenn Loury, an economist from Brown University, and Daniel Bessner, an international studies professor. They delve into the complexities of modern relationships, highlighting how technology can lead to loneliness amidst hyperconnectivity. The trio examines the dynamics of long-term relationships, the clash of sexual fantasies with societal norms, and critiques America's literacy crisis while navigating the challenges presented by a profit-driven media landscape.
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Loneliness vs. Hyperconnectivity
- Modern loneliness often disguises itself as hyperconnectivity through technology.
- Constant connection creates a sense of artificial intimacy and distracted attention.
The Role of Friction
- Technology aims to smooth out life's bumps and friction.
- However, friction is essential for desire and the erotic experience.
Declining Sperm Levels and Obstacles
- Declining sperm levels are linked to changes in diet and environment, starting in the 80s.
- Obstacles fuel desire, as removing them diminishes the erotic experience.