The Waterstones Podcast Gareth Southgate
Dec 9, 2025
Gareth Southgate, former professional footballer and England national team manager, shares insights shaped by his upbringing and experiences in football. He reflects on how his grandfather's military discipline and his parents' integrity influenced his leadership style. Gareth discusses the importance of creativity in fan engagement, team bonding strategies like the Traitors Game, and the often-overlooked roles, like kit men, that shape team culture. He also opens up about his future aspirations in youth mentoring after stepping back from football.
AI Snips
Chapters
Transcript
Episode notes
Early Lessons From His Grandfather
- Gareth Southgate describes his grandfather's military routines and manners that he mimicked as a child.
- Those early observations seeded lifelong standards of behaviour and discipline.
Balanced Parenting Shapes Resilience
- Gareth Southgate credits his parents for instilling integrity and measured support without living through him.
- That balance helped him avoid pressure while benefiting long-term development.
Coaching That Balanced Belief And Challenge
- Alan Smith coached Southgate from age 16 into his twenties using a mix of belief and challenge.
- That blend of support and stretch taught him how to push talent without destroying confidence.