#182 Questions about marriage and divorce (Replay)
Aug 24, 2023
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In this replay episode of Ask NT Wright Anything, they address listener questions about marriage. They discuss topics such as marriage in the afterlife, sacrifice and faithfulness in marriage, divorce and remarriage in Christianity, and the use of contraception in Christian marriages.
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Marriage in the age to come may not require procreation, but believers will be together with their loved ones in God's new age.
Marriage requires self-sacrifice, putting the other person's needs first, regular checkups with a wise pastor, and resilience in handling difficulties.
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Marriage in the Age to Come
In this episode, the question is raised about the nature of marriage in the age to come. The New Testament does not provide explicit details about this, but Jesus emphasizes the resurrection and the absence of death in the new age. Therefore, ordinary marriage, which involves procreation, may not be necessary in the age to come. However, Paul assures believers that they will be together with their loved ones in God's new age, and there will be recognition and mutual welcome. While the specific details are not known, it is believed that in the age to come, we will be more vividly ourselves than ever before.
Advice for Building a Successful Marriage
Marriage is described as both glorious and demanding. It is advised to prepare for the challenges and understand that marriage requires self-sacrifice and putting the other person's needs ahead of our own. Getting to know one another deeply can reveal surprising aspects, and humility and willingness to negotiate differences are crucial. Regular checkups with a wise pastor or counselor can help strengthen the bond and ensure effective communication. Resilience in handling difficulties and a commitment to trust and faithfulness are essential for a strong marriage.
Divorce, Remarriage, and Contraception in Christianity
According to the New Testament, divorce is generally not what God desires for marriages. There are permissions given in cases of unchastity and marriages involving a Christian and a non-Christian who wants to leave. Remarriage is understood to be included in these permissions. However, it is emphasized that marriage is challenging and should not be entered into lightly or selfishly. When it comes to contraception, the Bible does not explicitly address modern methods but highlights the importance of mutual delight and love in sexual relationships. It is cautioned against selfishness and the rejection of the procreative aspect of sex. Wisdom and balance are encouraged in considering the use of contraception.
From Feb 2020: Tom answers listener questions about marriage including: What will our married relationships look like in the new creation? What advice do you have for someone about to get married? What do you think about divorce? Can I get married to a non-Christian?
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