023 Negotiating Your Value In Romantic Relationships

Jul 19, 2020

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Matthew Coast is the creator of The Forever Woman, a best selling program that helps women ensure they are loved, seen, and cherished in relationships. His articles, videos, and programs reach over two million women, all over the world, every single month.

In this interview, Matthew talks about how to raise your value with men in romantic relationships. While some women may bristle at the idea of having to establish our value, Matthew really promotes loving yourself. He promotes the core principles to get what you want as:

Believing that you deserve it
Putting yourself in a valuable position
Communicating in a high value way

This isn’t about needing to establish your value based on external validation. What separates you from everyone else? How do you reframe those old beliefs and habits that may be holding you back from having the relationship you desire. The more emotion we have tied to something the more we become tied to those beliefs. So it’s important to emotionalize more empowering beliefs and finding evidence to support those more powerful thoughts.

Discover tools to create an abundance of connection in your life so you have options and will not become too attached to any one option or outcome.

Matthew busts some myths on the subject and discusses the difference between establishing your value at work versus in a romantic relationship, including the sum-cost principle and how that plays out in relationships.

Learn more about Matthew at:

https://www.facebook.com/MatthewCoastRA/

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCcL9spxJvF7ET57igXURwOw

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