

S3 E7: Himpathy
52 snips Oct 3, 2018
Philosopher Kate Manne joins Janey Williams in sharing her experiences of sexual assault and the troubling reactions she received from loved ones. They discuss the concept of 'himpathy' and the biased nature of empathy, highlighting the unequal treatment of male perpetrators and female victims. The podcast explores the aftermath of trauma, the reasons for not reporting immediately, and the complex dynamics of holding men accountable. They also delve into the impact of rape culture on women's experiences and the urgent need for change.
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Janie’s Assault Story
- Janie was drugged and sexually molested by her former friend Matthew while unconscious and powerless.
- She repeatedly said no and pushed him away before escaping and leaving the scene.
Protecting The Perpetrator
- Janie wanted to protect Matthew despite his assault on her due to his loneliness and their mutual social group.
- She knew telling others wouldn’t cause repercussions and feared losing friends who might excuse his behavior.
Friends Doubt Uncertainty Spreads
- Janie’s friend Nicole remembered Janie was unsure about drugging but was less clear about the sexual assault details.
- Nicole harbored doubts about the accusations which generalized into skepticism about the whole story.