Seth Rogen talks about lying to the press and taking an ocean voyage. He also shares his desire to sing and his admiration for Albert Brooks. The speakers discuss the best and worst advice they've received, emphasizing honesty and staying true to oneself. Seth Rogen jokes about being pushed off a boat at 120 years old and discusses his upcoming film. They reflect on past relationships and the importance of letting go and embracing the pain.
Separate love from past relationships to open up to new connections.
Embrace the risk of heartbreak in new relationships for the possibility of finding love.
Deep dives
Recovering from a Past Relationship
Five years ago, the speaker's ex broke up with them and later married their abusive ex in secret. The speaker struggled with self-blame until discovering the truth. Now, the speaker finds it hard to move on and experiences difficulty trusting others. They have remained close with their ex's mother, who acted as a parental figure. The speaker's obsession with their past relationship hinders their ability to form new connections.
Unlinking Love and Drama
To move forward, the speaker should separate their capacity to love from their past relationship. They should recognize that their love was not dependent on their ex, but rather a personal quality. The speaker must restructure their perception of the relationship and realize that love and drama are distinct entities. By disentangling these emotions, the speaker can open themselves up to new love and the possibility of healing.
Embracing the Pain of Love
The speaker must embrace the risk of getting hurt in new relationships. They should accept that heartbreak is a natural part of love and should not fear it. By acknowledging the pain of denial and loneliness, the speaker can understand that the potential pain of a new relationship is worth the possibility of finding love and connections again.
Maintaining a Relationship with the Ex's Mother
The speaker should continue their friendship with their ex's mother, as long as it is not centered around discussions of the ex or their divorce. They can set boundaries and redirect conversations away from the past relationship. The speaker should recognize that their friendship with the ex's mother is separate from their past relationship and can continue to be cultivated.
Seth Rogen [Superbad, Pineapple Express, An American Pickle] talks with Anna about lying to the press, wishing he could sing, taking a long ocean voyage, getting high on Mars, and more. Then Dan Savage from Savage Lovecast makes an appearance to provide some qualified advice as he and Anna talk with Chris.