
Conversations With Coleman When Empathy Goes Too Far with Dr. Gad Saad
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Oct 20, 2025 Dr. Gad Saad, an evolutionary psychologist and author of Suicidal Empathy, dives deep into the concept of empathy that has gone awry. He shares his childhood in Lebanon, highlighting the impact of identity politics on his worldview. Gad critiques the rise of 'suicidal empathy'—where victims are overlooked in favor of their perpetrators. He argues this phenomenon predominantly originates from the political left, while acknowledging empathy misapplications exist on both sides. The conversation challenges listeners to consider the balance of moral judgment.
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Childhood Under Threat In Lebanon
- Gad Saad recounts growing up as one of few Jews in Lebanon and facing open antisemitism from childhood onward.
- His family left after the Lebanese Civil War and his brother had to continue his judo career abroad due to threats.
Identity Politics Mirrors Sectarian Risk
- Saad links identity politics to Lebanon's confessional system and warns that organizing society by group identity undermines individual dignity.
- He argues that Western adoption of identity-based politics risks the same sectarian harms he witnessed in Lebanon.
Empathy Can Become Self-Destructive
- Saad frames 'suicidal empathy' as hyperactivated empathy that misdirects moral concern and harms victims.
- He compares empathy's dysregulation to cancer or OCD: adaptive in range, lethal when unchecked.















