Secret #33: Parents Matter - But Do We Make a Difference with Dr. Emily Edlynn

In this episode of 'Life's Dirty Little Secrets,' hosts Chris McCurry and Emma Waddington talk with Dr. Emily Edlin, a clinical psychologist specializing in children and families.

They explore the question of whether parents truly make a significant difference in their children's lives. The conversation delves into parenting pressures, the influence of genetics versus parental involvement, and the impact of different parenting styles. Emily shares insights from her new book on autonomy-supportive parenting, offering practical advice on managing parental anxiety and fostering healthy development in children.

The episode highlights the importance of maintaining a balanced perspective on the real influence of parenting and encourages listeners to focus on building nurturing relationships with their children.

Highlights:

• The impact of intensive parenting
• The influence of genetics vs. parenting
• Parental responsibility and anxiety
• The evolution of the parent-child relationship

Timestamps:

[01:54] The Impact of Parenting

[08:27] Genetics vs. Parenting

[11:38] Parental Responsibility and Anxiety

[22:28] Pseudoscience and Parenting

[29:01] Parental Expectations and Child Development

[30:31] The Importance of Parent-Child Relationship

[32:20] Technology and Modern Parenting Challenges

[34:44] Pressure in Youth Sports

[35:52] Dealing with Children's Disappointment

[40:27] Parental Influence and Letting Go

[44:52] Balancing Guidance and Freedom

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Emily Edlynn is a licensed clinical psychologist specializing in pediatric health psychology who works in private practice with children, teens, and adults. She has a BA in English from Smith College, a PhD in clinical psychology from Loyola University Chicago, and completed p

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