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#451 F-ing vs. Making Love: What's the Difference?

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Sep 16, 2025
Join relationship coaches Erwan and Alicia Davon, creators of the Davon Method, as they delve into the intriguing differences between f**king and making love. Their insights reveal how various approaches to intimacy can transform relationships through the lens of Tantra. From playful discussions on casual sex to the role of sexual toys in enhancing pleasure, they provide practical tools for both couples and singles. With an emphasis on self-exploration and connection, this conversation encourages listeners to embrace their desires and redefine intimacy.
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ANECDOTE

Moment That Changed A Career

  • Alicia recounts seeing a woman in a state of extended orgasm at her first workshop visit and deciding to stay.
  • That experience changed her expectations and set her on a career in sexuality and Tantra.
INSIGHT

Heart vs. Genital Modes

  • The Davons define "making love" as heart-centered contact and "fucking" as genital-centered, visceral energy.
  • Combining both gives the richest sexual experience, letting partners access heart and body together.
INSIGHT

Mind As The Main Obstacle

  • The mind is often the biggest barrier to switching between heart and genital contact.
  • Cultural taboos make some people comfortable with one mode and resistant to the other.
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