782: Death of Mother Could Trigger Ballistic Brother | Feedback Friday
Jan 20, 2023
Family dynamics take center stage as the hosts tackle a listener's concerns about attending a funeral with a potentially dangerous brother-in-law. They dissect the tensions surrounding emotional gatherings, offering humorous yet practical advice. The conversation then shifts to navigating infidelity in a long-distance relationship, highlighting personal growth amid cultural dislocation. Workplace favoritism also gets a look-in, with insights on ethical dilemmas and career choices. It's a blend of light-hearted banter and serious life lessons!
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Pre-Funeral Diplomacy
Express condolences to the brother-in-law upon the mother's death, despite his behavior.
This shows compassion and potentially minimizes conflict before the funeral.
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Managing Funeral Risks
Attend the funeral, but stay alert and watchful of the brother-in-law's behavior.
Inform funeral staff about the brother-in-law's instability and ask them to intervene if necessary.
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Navigating a Strained International Relationship
Accept the reality of the relationship's current state and acknowledge the differing commitment levels.
Move out, create your own life, and engage with the new country and culture.
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Now that your mother-in-law is in hospice, you're worried that your unstable brother-in-law — whose uncomfortable attachment to her makes Norman Bates look like John Boy Walton — is set to go literally ballistic against you and your husband (who has been handling her financial affairs) when she finally passes. Should you skip the funeral, or rent a couple of bulletproof vests and hope for the best? We'll try to find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!
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Should you skip your mother-in-law's funeral to avoid being shot by the unhinged brother-in-law over financial affairs?
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