Getting Better with Jonathan Van Ness Cleansing Our 2025 Algorithms - ICYMI
Dec 22, 2025
This week, the hosts take a joyful stroll down memory lane, sharing highlights from their favorite TikToks. They dive into relationship advice, discussing how to handle social media expectations with partners. Joy hangovers and the art of accepting feelings also come to light, alongside debates about ghosting versus tough conversations. The TikTok roundup features political gems and sweet animal moments, all while blending laughter with critiques of celebrity culture and everyday etiquette. Plus, apple cider donuts earn a seasonal spot in their Hot Bitches list!
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Ask For The Post You Want
- Ask for the social media visibility you want instead of assuming the reason behind your partner's choices.
- Be prepared for a 'no' and decide whether that answer meets your needs.
Acceptance Eases Joy Hangovers
- Accepting anxious feelings after a great weekend reduces their power.
- Jonathan van Ness recommends welcoming the feeling so it 'flows' rather than persists.
End Situationships With A Short Honest Message
- Avoid ghosting when there has been regular communication; have a brief honest conversation instead.
- Use a simple message like 'I'm looking for something different' to close things with integrity.