THE MONOGAMISH MARRIAGE

S1 Ep. 6: Jealousy

Dec 26, 2021
This discussion dives deep into jealousy, exploring its roots in insecurity and how it impacts relationships. Kate shares her experience with a controlling ex-husband, while both hosts reflect on early jealousy moments that surprised them. They highlight the importance of therapy, boundaries, and consent, showcasing their journey toward understanding. Jealousy is also framed as a potential catalyst for growth and desire, providing a unique perspective on how this emotion can actually enhance relationships when navigated thoughtfully.
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INSIGHT

Jealousy Starts Inside

  • Jealousy often originates internally from insecurity and unworthiness.
  • It projects onto partners as mistrust even when no betrayal occurred.
ANECDOTE

Boudoir Photos Spark Surprise Jealousy

  • Kate had boudoir photos taken by an ex-boyfriend as a birthday gift for Liam.
  • Liam felt punched by discovering the photographer's identity and experienced unexpected jealousy.
ANECDOTE

Saved Sexual Photos Caused Conflict

  • Kate found sexual photos of Liam's ex-girlfriend on his computer and asked him to delete them.
  • Liam resisted then deleted them later, which created recurring trust friction between them.
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