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Love Isn’t Enough: Gay Marriage, Surrogacy & Divorce | Katy Faust

Sep 5, 2025
Katy Faust, Founder and President of Them Before Us, advocates for children's rights and emphasizes the need for stable biological family units. She critiques the cultural shift towards sexual autonomy, arguing that it undermines children's well-being. Through personal stories, she highlights the adverse effects of surrogacy and divorce on children. Faust also explores the balance between adult autonomy and nurturing healthy family structures, urging a reevaluation of modern ideals and policies that prioritize children's interests.
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ANECDOTE

Personal Family Story Shapes View

  • Katy Faust grew up with divorced parents and maintains a close relationship with both her mother and father.
  • Her experience shapes her belief that children need both a mother and a father for identity and flourishing.
INSIGHT

Intentional Loss Hurts More Than Tragedy

  • Children who lose a parent to death often fare better than those who lose a parent through divorce or intentional separation.
  • Faust argues intentional parent loss isolates children's grief and removes communal validation of their loss.
ADVICE

Prioritise Biological Parents In Policy

  • Avoid normalising commercial surrogacy and intentional mother- or fatherless family creation as progress.
  • Prioritise children's need for biological parents when shaping reproductive policy and practice.
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