

911: Esther Perel | Cheating, Argument, and Conflict
120 snips Oct 17, 2023
Esther Perel, a legendary therapist specializing in intimacy, shares profound insights on relationships, infidelity, and conflict. She discusses how cheating often stems from a desire to reconnect with lost aspects of ourselves rather than abandoning partners. Perel also explores the tension between adult responsibilities and the need for adventure in relationships, emphasizing better communication during conflicts. Additionally, she examines the impact of artificial intelligence on intimacy, urging the importance of authentic human connections in a digital age.
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Cheating and Self-Discovery
- Infidelity isn't always about wanting a new partner.
- It's often about rediscovering a lost part of oneself within a relationship.
Nurturing Individuality
- Bring adventure and playfulness into your relationship.
- Encourage your partner's personal development to prevent stagnation.
Modern Marriage Expectations
- Marriage wasn't historically for self-development.
- This is a recent expectation, complicating modern relationships.