592: Do the Math: Am I a Psychopath? | Feedback Friday
Nov 26, 2021
Curious about psychopathy? The hosts dive into a listener's struggle with self-doubt and behavioral tendencies, seeking clarity on their identity. A heartfelt story unfolds as someone grapples with emotional betrayal after revealing past trauma to an unsupportive mother. The discussion highlights the complexities of familial relationships and the search for healing. They also tackle workplace hostility, emphasizing the need for communication and support. Tune in for insight into navigating relationships, identity, and personal growth!
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Student Cheating & Anti-Bully
A student claimed another's spelling test, then succeeded in a test to prove ownership, feeling powerful.
Later, they became an anti-bully, intervening in problems but lacking emotional connection, even getting into a serious fight.
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Contradictory Behaviors
While some behaviors, like a lack of remorse or guilt, might seem psychopathic, other actions contradict this.
Protecting others, avoiding manipulation, and seeking feedback from loved ones point away from psychopathy.
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Narcissism and Attention-Seeking
Narcissism, not psychopathy, might explain some behaviors, as narcissists are aware of their actions but prioritize self-interest.
Attention-seeking behavior is also considered, questioning if the self-perception as a psychopath serves a purpose.
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In 'Surrounded by Psychopaths', Thomas Erikson provides readers with tools to recognize and protect themselves from manipulative individuals. Using the DISC model, Erikson helps readers understand their own behavior and vulnerabilities, offering practical strategies to combat manipulation in various settings. The book emphasizes self-awareness as a key defense mechanism against psychopathic behaviors.
Thinking back on how you've navigated your life, you're concerned that certain human interactions reveal a tendency toward behavior that our former guest, behavioral expert Thomas Erikson, might categorize as psychopathic. Weighing the evidence for and against, you really want an answer to this question: "Am I a psychopath?" We'll try to get to the bottom of this and more here on Feedback Friday!
And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!
Weighing the evidence for and against, you really want an answer to this: "Am I a psychopath?" [Thanks to behavioral expert Thomas Erikson for helping us field this one!]
Now in your thirties, you gathered the courage to tell your mother about the sexual abuse your stepfather inflicted on you as a teenager. Her response was to take his side and now they've moved out of state, essentially cutting you off entirely. You're rightfully devastated. How can you move on from this? [Thanks to clinical psychologist Dr. Erin Margolis for helping us with this one!]
Your otherwise model spouse has one or two episodes a year when overdrinking prompts him into hurtful ranting for which he'll apologize the next day and all is forgiven. But what if he mouths off to the wrong person or says something that is truly unforgivable next time (like the upcoming holidays)? Is there anything you can do in the moment to bring him back to his senses?
As a factory supervisor, you expect to hear certain blue-collar perspectives aired that would be considered unprofessional (or grounds for termination) in other fields, but it's only gotten worse in today's divisive political climate. Sadly, objecting to the employees and HR has gotten you nowhere. Hunting for another job during the pandemic would set you back in several areas of your life, but you feel powerless to improve conditions at your current position. What should you do?
You're an overwhelmed teenager in a rural community who has found solace in the act of cutting yourself with a razor blade. You know it's dangerous and you told your parents you're over it after they caught you, but you still crave the feeling. How can you actually get over the urge to cut yourself?[Thanks to Dr. Erin Margolis for helping us with this one, too!]
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