Dating Advice, Attractiveness & Relationships (with Macken Murphy)
Sep 6, 2023
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Anthropology researcher and podcast host Macken Murphy discusses dating, attractiveness, relationships, and the Red Pill/Manosphere. Topics include the link between reproductive signaling and warfare, controversy surrounding violence in ethnography, the impact of online dating, monogamy, infidelity, polyamory, and practical advice for increasing mate attraction.
Improving physical appearance and grooming can enhance attractiveness in dating and relationships.
Complimenting more than criticizing and incorporating novelty and surprise can strengthen and keep relationships fresh and exciting.
Deep dives
Improving Attractiveness: Physical Appearance
To increase chances of mate attraction, focus on improving physical appearance by building muscle, losing fat, and maintaining good hygiene. Dressing well and grooming oneself can also enhance attractiveness.
Maintaining a Healthy Relationship
Compliment more than you criticize, as compliments reduce stress and create a bond. Engage in non-escalative physical touch, such as a pat on the cheek or cuddling, to strengthen the relationship. Incorporating novelty, spontaneity, and surprise can also keep the relationship fresh and exciting.
Dealing with Breakups
While there is no specific researched advice, therapy often suggests no contact after a breakup. Removing oneself from constant exposure to the ex-partner and ceasing communication may aid in moving on.
Surprising Research Finding
Genetics appear to play a role in behaviors related to relationships, such as divorce and infidelity. Twin studies have revealed a genetic component, which can influence the likelihood of engaging in such behaviors.
We discuss dating, attractiveness, relationships and the Red Pill / Manosphere with anthropology researcher and host of the "Species" podcast Macken Murphy
A link to his website is here: https://www.mackenmurphy.org/