PDA Parents Episode 2 - Second Children and the Complex Nature of PDA
Feb 20, 2021
The hosts share personal stories about the impact of a second child on family dynamics and understanding Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA). They discuss the emotional challenges faced by older siblings, including anxiety and behavior changes. Navigating social settings reveals the complexities of child behavior and early signs of controlling actions. The conversation highlights the intense vigilance needed to manage sensory sensitivities between siblings and emphasizes the importance of understanding in parenting unique developmental needs.
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Second Child Alters Family Dynamics
- Casey experienced a major turning point after her second son's birth, revealing her firstborn Cooper's unique neurodivergence and leading to PDA awareness.
- Cooper's anxiety and meltdowns worsened post-birth due to increased demands and less individualized attention.
Sibling Rivalry as PDA Stress
- Caitie described her daughter Rose's confusing affectionate then aggressive behavior towards her new brother Danny.
- Rose perceived the baby as a threat, causing unpredictable and intense emotional outbursts.
Complexity of PDA Challenges
- PDA symptoms feel qualitatively different and more complex than typical developmental challenges.
- Lack of awareness and reference points makes it hard for parents to articulate their experiences.
