SHR # 2807:: The Intimacy Solution: Life Lessons in Sex and Love - Dr. Erika Schwartz, MD - The Intimacy Solution investigates the connection between sex and intimacy at all stages of life through patient stories and research and explores how individual sexuality takes shape and changes over the course of the various ages and phases of life. What exactly is sexuality and how does it impact our lives? In her book The Intimacy Solution, Dr. Erika Schwartz presents an in-depth look at how our individual sexual identities are shaped, and how the “norm” differs vastly from what social stereotypes and the media would have us believe.