680. Don't Assume the Worst: The Power of Hanlon's Razor

Nov 5, 2025

Brian reflects on lessons learned during a NYC Marathon weekend and explores the complexities of drifting friendships. He introduces Hanlon's Razor, urging listeners not to assume malice when mistakes may stem from ignorance or miscommunication. Delving into human nature, he shares how we often default to believing others mean to harm us. The discussion also covers practical applications of this perspective in professional and personal settings, reminding everyone to pause, seek understanding, and foster healthier relationships.

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ANECDOTE

Father's Lost Friendship

Brian Gubernick describes running the NYC Marathon and spending quality time with his father which triggered a deeper conversation about a long-faded friendship.
His dad recounted how a once-close friend intentionally drifted away, prompting questions about presumed motives.

INSIGHT

Hanlon's Razor Defined

Hanlon's razor states: never attribute to malice what can be explained by ignorance or stupidity.
Brian frames 'stupidity' as human error, miscommunication, forgetfulness, ego, or lack of awareness.

ADVICE

Pause And Question Intent

Ask whether perceived malice might actually be ignorance or lack of awareness before concluding someone's intent.
Pause and question assumptions to avoid turning misunderstandings into permanent rifts.

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Brian shares a lesson that hit close to home. Straight from a weekend running the New York City Marathon, Monday Night Football, and quality time with his dad.

We've all experienced relationships that drift or dissolve. A friend, a colleague, a partner — someone who suddenly feels more like a stranger. And when that happens, the default story we tell ourselves is: They meant to hurt me.

But what if they didn't?

Enter Hanlon's Razor: Never attribute to malice what can be explained by ignorance, miscommunication, or simple human error.

In business and in life, the assumption of bad intent wastes energy, kills relationships, and creates enemies that never actually existed. Brian breaks down how this mental model has helped him rethink conflict, stay level-headed in leadership, and preserve important connections.

If you're leading a team, building a business, navigating family dynamics… this episode is a reminder to pause before you react and seek clarity before you cast judgment.

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