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The Lila Rose Podcast

E160: Are People Born Gay? w/Therapist Michael Gasparro

Nov 5, 2024
Michael Gasparro, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist from California, shares his personal journey with same-sex attraction and offers insights from his work with clients. The conversation tackles whether people are 'born gay,' the influence of childhood environments on attraction, and the complexities of navigating therapy in light of societal and religious beliefs. Gasparro emphasizes the importance of supportive parenting and understanding the psychological impacts of early experiences, advocating for open dialogue around sexual health.
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Quick takeaways

  • Reintegrative therapy focuses on uncovering underlying trauma and attachment issues rather than changing a person's sexual orientation.
  • The complexity of same-sex attraction is influenced more by environmental factors and personal experiences than solely by genetic predisposition.

Deep dives

Understanding Conversion Therapy vs. Reintegrative Therapy

Conversion therapy is often characterized as a practice that tries to change a person's sexual orientation, and its validity is highly debated. Reintegrative therapy, on the other hand, is focused on addressing underlying issues related to unwanted same-sex attraction, often involving trauma and attachment insecurity. This therapy endeavors to explore the factors that contribute to these feelings rather than forcing a change in sexual orientation. By understanding emotional and psychological wounds, individuals seeking help may find pathways to healing without the pressure to conform to societal expectations.

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