The Lila Rose Show E160: Are People Born Gay? w/Therapist Michael Gasparro
Nov 5, 2024
Michael Gasparro, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist from California, shares his personal journey with same-sex attraction and offers insights from his work with clients. The conversation tackles whether people are 'born gay,' the influence of childhood environments on attraction, and the complexities of navigating therapy in light of societal and religious beliefs. Gasparro emphasizes the importance of supportive parenting and understanding the psychological impacts of early experiences, advocating for open dialogue around sexual health.
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No Single Origin Explains Same‑Sex Attraction
- Michael Gasparro says mainstream science finds no single origin for same-sex attraction and calls it a mix of nature and nurture.
- He emphasizes that labels like “normal and healthy” are moral claims separate from scientific uncertainty.
Treat Wounds, Don’t Force Outcomes
- Use standard trauma‑informed talk therapy like EMDR and mindful self-compassion to address developmental wounds linked to sexual issues.
- Focus therapy goals on integration, psychological health, and freedom, not on forcing a particular sexual outcome.
Genetics Part, Environment Larger
- Gasparro cites large genetics studies estimating roughly 28–33% genetic predisposition for same-sex attraction.
- He notes most psychological traits show higher heritability, so environment plays a large role here.