Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast Financial Domination BDSM FinDom-S04E06
Mar 28, 2022
50:51
Recorded: 09/12/2021 / Published: 3/28/2022
- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
- In this week’s episode of The Krypt it's a requested topic by Mi Tu: FinDoms. Also known as Financial Domination.
- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
- “Financial Domination (BDSM FinDom)-S04E06”
Defined: is a subsect of the BDSM lifestyle, specifically dominance and submission, in which a submissive gives control of their finances to a Dominant. Often degradation and humiliation are included in the D/s dynamic.
What is the difference between Financial Domination and sugar babying?
A sugar baby relationship is where a sugar daddy/mama offers gifts and money to the "baby" in return for a relationship, generally without any explicit elements of domination. In financial domination, the submissive has no expectation of sexual contact in return for the money, and often there is no physical contact of any kind between the two parties.
Lingo:
Dominant: money mistress, findomme, Goddess or money domme
Submissive: money slave, finsub, paypig, human ATM, or cash piggy
Conversational: tribute,
Types of Dynamics:
Online: Contact is maintained strictly through social media sites or FinDom specific dating sites. Tributes are given through online payment sites or apps.
In-person: Tributes are almost always given and often the submissive is to accompany the dominant shopping and paying for everything, the sub is to give the Dom a credit card from the subs account, or both.
Hybrid: Typically, FinDom dynamics in the U.S.A. start off as an online situation. After trust is gained, some will move it into real-life meetups.
Dangers of FinDom dynamics:
Addiction: It is a highly addictive process. A quick online search will show you thousands of articles, videos, and documentaries proving that it can easily be one of the most life-ruining kinks or fetishes that a person can become involved in.
End Game: The ultimate fantasy for most men that participate as a paypig is to have to file bankruptcy after selling everything they own to pay their FinDom tribute. Sadly, this is also a goal of many FinDoms.
Ending of Relationships: Often as people start running low on cash they will borrow and/or steal from loved ones to get their tribute fix.
Death: Depression is a real issue after a person realizes they have role played themselves in losing everything they once found dear to them. Suicide is not an uncommon occurrence among online-only participants. This is often credited to the disconnect that online play affords.
Important Links:
Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/406
National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
Show Producers:
Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
Snail mail a donation or gift:
Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
Alcoa, TN 37701
- Benefactor ($2,000/month):
- Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
- Master Producer ($50/month):
- Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Anomalous Mats, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Kiongakyu, dboat, and Frozen Moron
- Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, TwistedTink&JustTommy, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Toredon, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Charlie & little bit, and Mr. Byond
- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Atsila, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, Beatrix Kiddo, and Solstice
- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and Ashley
Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
- Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
Contact info:
Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fire
Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
Instagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/
Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
- In this week’s episode of The Krypt it's a requested topic by Mi Tu: FinDoms. Also known as Financial Domination.
- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
- “Financial Domination (BDSM FinDom)-S04E06”
Defined: is a subsect of the BDSM lifestyle, specifically dominance and submission, in which a submissive gives control of their finances to a Dominant. Often degradation and humiliation are included in the D/s dynamic.
What is the difference between Financial Domination and sugar babying?
A sugar baby relationship is where a sugar daddy/mama offers gifts and money to the "baby" in return for a relationship, generally without any explicit elements of domination. In financial domination, the submissive has no expectation of sexual contact in return for the money, and often there is no physical contact of any kind between the two parties.
Lingo:
Dominant: money mistress, findomme, Goddess or money domme
Submissive: money slave, finsub, paypig, human ATM, or cash piggy
Conversational: tribute,
Types of Dynamics:
Online: Contact is maintained strictly through social media sites or FinDom specific dating sites. Tributes are given through online payment sites or apps.
In-person: Tributes are almost always given and often the submissive is to accompany the dominant shopping and paying for everything, the sub is to give the Dom a credit card from the subs account, or both.
Hybrid: Typically, FinDom dynamics in the U.S.A. start off as an online situation. After trust is gained, some will move it into real-life meetups.
Dangers of FinDom dynamics:
Addiction: It is a highly addictive process. A quick online search will show you thousands of articles, videos, and documentaries proving that it can easily be one of the most life-ruining kinks or fetishes that a person can become involved in.
End Game: The ultimate fantasy for most men that participate as a paypig is to have to file bankruptcy after selling everything they own to pay their FinDom tribute. Sadly, this is also a goal of many FinDoms.
Ending of Relationships: Often as people start running low on cash they will borrow and/or steal from loved ones to get their tribute fix.
Death: Depression is a real issue after a person realizes they have role played themselves in losing everything they once found dear to them. Suicide is not an uncommon occurrence among online-only participants. This is often credited to the disconnect that online play affords.
Important Links:
Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/406
National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
Show Producers:
Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
Snail mail a donation or gift:
Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
Alcoa, TN 37701
- Benefactor ($2,000/month):
- Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
- Master Producer ($50/month):
- Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Anomalous Mats, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Kiongakyu, dboat, and Frozen Moron
- Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, TwistedTink&JustTommy, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Toredon, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Charlie & little bit, and Mr. Byond
- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Atsila, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, Beatrix Kiddo, and Solstice
- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and Ashley
Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
- Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)
Contact info:
Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fire
Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
Instagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/
Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource