Call Her Daddy How to Handle the Holidays
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Nov 9, 2025 The holidays often clash with our expectations, and this discussion uncovers why. Family dynamics and past trauma can create stress, making it crucial to lower expectations. Tips for meeting your partner's family are insightful, covering gift etiquette and first impressions. Alex emphasizes the importance of knowing family dynamics to avoid awkward situations. Also discussed is the kinder approach of breaking up before the holidays and finding joy in solitude. Overall, it's a reality check on navigating the holiday season.
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Holiday Expectations Are Manufactured
- Holidays rarely match the marketed, Hallmark version and often create disappointment when expectations are too high.
- Alex Cooper urges recognizing advertising-driven nostalgia to avoid unrealistic holiday standards.
Plan A Shield For Known Triggers
- Anticipate your family triggers and plan how you'll respond ahead of time to reduce holiday stress.
- Set boundaries, break patterns, or alter traditions to protect your emotional well-being.
Bring A Thoughtful Host Gift
- Bring a simple host gift like a candle, fruit basket, or bottle of wine when meeting a partner's family for Thanksgiving.
- Offer to help with food or cleanup and express genuine gratitude throughout the visit.