Spoiler alert Gentleman, this has nothing to do with you and your desire to masturbate 5x/day. On today's episode we speak with instagram's new obsession, the sex-pert Vanessa Marin and her husband Xander Marin.

Vanessa is a sex therapist with 20 years of experience and Xander is a self proclaimed "regular dude". Together they’re the shockingly open, slightly nerdy, and seriously funny couple you want to grab sushi with (Ryan hates sushi).

On this episode we discuss:

Matching sex drives - Why your partners doesn't match yours
The Two types of Sex Types
Is passion required for Sex
Tap into your Drive mode & avoid your Reverse mode
Are you having sex to connect, or do you need to be connected to have Sex
Is the kneecap the secret to an incredible O
Self Pleasure is the Key to Pleasure in the Bedroom

Connect with our guests:

@vanessamarintherapy

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S2 E67 - Masturbation leads to better SEX w Vanessa & Xander Marin