484: Give Bridesmaid the Boot for Political Dispute? | Feedback Friday
Mar 19, 2021
A listener grapples with inviting a politically charged bridesmaid to their wedding, raising questions about friendship and values. Discussions explore managing familial disapproval in long-distance relationships, highlighting communication strategies and familial expectations. Additionally, the hosts offer insights on balancing personal connections with professionalism and maintaining healthy boundaries while supporting a partner's mental health. This lively banter weaves through personal dilemmas, making for an engaging and thought-provoking conversation.
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Prioritizing Wedding Happiness
Consider the impact of including a difficult friend in your wedding.
Prioritize your own and your fiancé's happiness on your wedding day.
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Beyond Political Disagreements
Political disagreements can strain friendships, but the core issue often lies in how people relate to each other.
Evaluate if shared values and respect exist beyond differing political opinions.
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Calibrating Communication
Calibrate your communication style based on context and audience.
Err on the side of formality, especially in professional settings, and dial back humor initially.
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Your BFF was slated to be a bridesmaid at your wedding, but she can't resist the urge to argue about politics with you, your fiance, and anyone with whom she disagrees. Now you're wondering: should you even invite her to the wedding at all? We'll dig into this and more here on Feedback Friday!
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Your BFF bridesmaid insufferably loves to argue politics to the point that your fiance can't stand the sight of her. Now you're wondering: should you even invite her to your wedding?
Even though you helped your dad build a multi-million dollar business, your long-distance girlfriend's old-fashioned parents don't approve of your relationship. They don't see what you've done as an accomplishment, just that you "work for your dad." What can you do to improve your relationship with people who might someday be your in-laws?
You tend to interact with people in a way that some consider being too informal or familiar. Sometimes your sense of humor just doesn't seem to hit the right note and you wind up offending more often than making people laugh. Is there anything you should be doing to make a better impression?
Your girlfriend is a magnificent writer, with a master's degree in English, pursuing a career in publishing. Unfortunately, her lack of success in landing a job has sapped her confidence; she won’t reach out to friends and family for support, and is terrified to ask for help. She's even opposed to therapy thanks to bad experiences in the past. What can you do?
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