Aaron Pang, a software engineer, shares his emotional journey navigating public transit with a disability, highlighting vulnerability and humor. Michelle Robertson recounts a lifelong sibling rivalry against the backdrop of her parents' unexpected divorce, reflecting on family dynamics. Patience Murray, entrepreneur and shooting survivor, offers a gripping narrative of resilience after the Pulse nightclub tragedy, addressing trauma and healing. Together, these stories illuminate the unpredictability of life and the strength found in personal storytelling.
Aaron Pang's story highlights the delicate balance of kindness and practicality in public spaces for those with disabilities.
Michelle Robertson's reflection on sibling rivalry transforms into a deeper bond during a family crisis, illustrating the power of vulnerability.
Deep dives
Aaron Pang's Commute Experience
Aaron Pang shares a poignant experience during his commute on San Francisco's BART subway system. Navigating the station with a cane and leg braces, he encounters frustration when the elevators and escalators are out of service, forcing him to tackle several flights of stairs. As he descends, he notices a crowd forming behind him, revealing the unexpected kindness of strangers who are holding back to offer him space. The story highlights the tension between kindness and practicality, as Aaron eventually challenges the group to pass him, reflecting on the complexities of being differently abled in public spaces.
The Balancing Act of Public Perception
Aaron illustrates the nuanced dynamics of how people perceive his abilities while sharing humorous anecdotes from his subway rides. He describes a game he plays called 'accessibility seating chicken,' where he, a pregnant woman, and an elderly man compete for two accessible seats in a subway car, underscoring the awkwardness that arises in polite society over who is more deserving of the seat. He conveys the mixed reactions he faces from strangers, such as being mistaken for able-bodied when, in fact, he relies on his cane and braces for support. Through these moments, he grapples with his identity and self-image while navigating the challenges of public transport.
Sibling Rivalry and the Complexity of Family Dynamics
Michelle Robertson reflects on her childhood marked by a fierce sibling rivalry with her sister Rebecca, who seemed to be favored by their mother. As adults, this rivalry continues until a family crisis forces the sisters to confront their differences during their parents' divorce. When Michelle learns of the divorce unexpectedly, she gathers the courage to reach out to Rebecca, leading to a cathartic conversation where they bond over their shared pain. This moment of vulnerability allows them to acknowledge the complexities of their relationship and ultimately brings them closer, transforming their rivalry into a sisterly bond.
Surviving the Pulse Nightclub Shooting
Patience Murray recounts her harrowing experience during the mass shooting at the Pulse nightclub, detailing the chaos and fear that engulfed her and her friends. As gunshots rang out, she and her friend Kira immediately rushed back inside to find their friend Tiara, showcasing their determination and bravery despite the danger. They ultimately seek refuge in a crowded bathroom stall as the shooter continues to wreak havoc, culminating in thick tension as Patience suffers a gunshot wound. Through her gripping account, she illustrates the psychological and physical trauma of surviving such a traumatic event and the long-lasting impact it has on her life in the years that follow.
In this hour, the moments of shock and uncanny realizations, and the tenacity, perspective, and humor that help us through. An unexpected skating partner, a family divided, a daily commute, and surviving a catastrophic tragedy. This episode is hosted by Moth Senior Director Meg Bowles. The Moth Radio Hour is produced by The Moth and Jay Allison of Atlantic Public Media.
Storytellers:
Aaron Pang describes a painful commute on San Francisco’s BART
Joel Brady and his wife have a “date night” at the Neville Island Roller Drome.
Michelle Robertson and her sister are constantly in competition.
Patience Murray experiences an unthinkable act of violence firsthand.