The Baggage Reclaim Sessions

Between the Sessions: Why Do They Keep Having Sex With Me If They're Not Interested?

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Oct 15, 2025
Exploring the complexities of casual relationships, the discussion highlights why people might engage in sex without seeking commitment. Signals can become mixed, where intimacy doesn’t always indicate progression. The importance of aligning actions and words is emphasized, revealing how silence and gaslighting patterns complicate intentions. Listeners are encouraged to slow down, reclaim their agency, and ensure mutual agreement in any arrangement. Ultimately, prioritizing self-respect and clear communication is key to fostering healthy connections.
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ANECDOTE

Afterglow Reveals The Mismatch

  • You meet someone, have great sex, and feel a connection, then discover they won't commit.
  • That awkward afterglow moment exposes the mismatch between physical intimacy and relationship intent.
INSIGHT

Sex Is Often Just Casual For Them

  • Sex doesn't guarantee a relationship; many people treat sexual contact as a casual arrangement.
  • They may overvalue what they bring and enjoy power without responsibility.
INSIGHT

Power Trips Hide Behind Casual Sex

  • Some people enjoy the power trip of sleeping with someone who wants more while they stay uninhibited.
  • That dynamic treats you like a sexual plaything and is degrading.
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