Trigger warning: this episode contains mention of child abuse and suicidal ideation.

Amy and Margaret talk with Glen Henry—creator of Beleaf in Fatherhood and author of the new book Father Yourself First—about breaking cycles, reimagining fatherhood, and learning to parent with intention, grace, and community. Glen shares his journey from growing up in a difficult household to becoming a present, emotionally attuned father, and how mentorship, open communication, and self-work helped reshape his parenting.

They discuss navigating hard conversations with children about race and safety, deconstructing the voices we’ve internalized from our own parents, and why parents must learn to “father themselves first.” Glen also explores the importance of modeling real family life, finding mentors, building community, and creating an inner voice rooted in compassion instead of fear or old wounds.

This moving conversation is especially powerful for parents who didn’t grow up with healthy models and are working to create something new for their own families.

Here's where you can find Glen:

@beleafmel on Instagram
@beleafinfatherhood on YT
@beleafinfatherhood on TikTok
Buy FATHER YOURSELF FIRST: https://bookshop.org/a/12099/9781400252558

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