Today, Cami and Niki welcome Nicoletta Heidegger, a licensed marriage and family therapist and sexologist. She hosts Sluts and Scholars Podcast, a sex positive, shame free, educational podcast where they try to help make your sex smarter and your smarts sexier.

This week, we are doing a 2-part episode, the first half you can listen to by checking out the Sluts and Scholars podcast and then the second half is here. We start off with the question, “What was your introduction to kink?” We then shift into talking about how monogamy is ingrained in us and why it’s okay to come to terms with yourself before getting a new partner. The fun part is, this seems more like a therapy session. It’s free, it’s fun, and it’s hilarious!

Listen Up:

00:00 Intro
01:05 What was your introduction to kink?
10:12 Find a partner who’s willing to support your preferences
18:51 We are all conditioned to be monogamous
24:36 Slow down and take time to be with yourself
38:52 Do you see it as a waste of time?
46:53 Dealing with panic attacks and anxiety
54:48 Do you read reverse harem?

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