Exploring the painful reality of failed IVF, personal experiences and support, challenges of starting the IVF journey, the trauma of a failed transfer, the impact and limitations of IVF, sharing news of pregnancy, and reflections on the changes in their relationship.
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IVF success is not guaranteed and the chances of it working vary from person to person.
The high cost of IVF creates a barrier to access for many people, especially in countries without comprehensive insurance coverage.
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The Reality Behind IVF
IVF has allowed millions of people to become parents, but the stories of couples for whom it doesn't work are rarely told. Most embryos transferred in IVF do not implant or fail in some other way, resulting in heartbreak for many. The grief of losing something that could have been is a powerful and lonely experience. IVF is a process filled with hope, but the reality is that success is not guaranteed and the chances of it working vary from person to person.
The Process of IVF
IVF involves multiple stages, including stimulating the ovaries to produce multiple eggs, retrieving the eggs, fertilizing them in a lab with sperm, and transferring the resulting embryos into the womb. The process is intense, involving hormone injections, ultrasounds, and medical procedures. The two-week wait after the embryo transfer is filled with anxiety and speculation on whether the IVF cycle was successful. Each cycle of IVF can be emotionally and physically taxing.
The Financial Burden of IVF
IVF is an expensive treatment, with costs varying depending on the country and clinic. In the UK, it can cost around £5,000 for a cycle, while in the US, it can be as high as $20,000 or more. The high cost of IVF creates a barrier to access for many people, especially in countries without comprehensive insurance coverage. Some individuals and couples exhaust their financial and emotional resources trying multiple cycles, often without success.
Moving Forward and the Impact on Relationships
Deciding when to stop pursuing IVF is a difficult and personal decision. Some choose to continue trying indefinitely, while others set limits based on financial or emotional factors. The process of IVF can strain relationships, as partners may experience different emotions and cope with the challenges in different ways. The experience can also create a sense of isolation, as the journey is often kept private and the pain of failed cycles is not widely understood.
In our second episode of The Weekend Intelligence, The Economist correspondents Catherine Brahic and Sacha Nauta tell a different story about fertility treatment. A story about the pain, the hope and the despair that is paid for a life to be created. And a personal story about two women, over five years, whose lives followed parallel tracks in their quest for a baby.