No Bullsh!t Leadership Paying the Price of Leadership: 4 Hard Truths Every Leader Must Accept
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Jan 13, 2026 Leadership isn't just about benefits; it comes with a hefty price tag. Leaders face hard decisions that can hurt those they care about and must accept being disliked. Misunderstandings often arise from confidential choices, leading to harmful narratives. Martin shares personal stories to illustrate these truths and offers practical tips to help leaders embrace the costs. From focusing on results to managing perceptions, he equips aspiring leaders with strategies to navigate the rocky terrain of leadership.
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Leadership Has Hidden Costs
- Leadership carries hidden costs that few discuss: hard choices, dislike, and misunderstanding.
- Accepting these costs is essential to lead effectively and avoid perpetual bargaining with yourself.
Careful Promotions Can Protect Careers
- Martin promoted a high-potential exec into a test role but later demoted her because she wasn't ready.
- The move ultimately benefited her career after she developed the skills he had coached her on.
Respect Beats Popularity
- You cannot please all stakeholders; seeking popularity undermines tough decisions.
- Prioritise doing the best for the most and choose respect over popularity.