Apostolic Life in the 21st Century Should Christians Honor Unsaved Parents?
Aug 18, 2025
The fifth commandment raises challenging questions for Christians with unsaved or abusive parents. The discussion revolves around the balance of respect and boundaries in these relationships. Insights on adult children's responsibilities and the importance of kindness towards parents—even those who are difficult—highlight a path toward potential restoration. Supporting aging parents is framed as a moral obligation, emphasizing the role of family and community. Ultimately, it encourages reflecting God's grace in our actions.
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Authority Has Limits
- Authority equals responsibility: parents have authority because God entrusted them to care for children.
- No human authority is absolute; only God's authority is final, so parental authority can be limited by God's law.
Respect Without Submission
- Respect parents who gave you life even if they are unsaved or immoral; do not hate or retaliate.
- Refuse to obey commands that lead you to sin and remove yourself from physical or severe emotional abuse.
Listen Respectfully, Set Boundaries
- Adult children should listen respectfully and consider parental advice even when not obliged to obey.
- Set boundaries and refuse to stay in abusive relationships while maintaining a measure of respect.