In this Thanksgiving special, John Maxwell shares ten types of people to have at your leadership table. The potential for change increases with participation, leaders thrive in their strength zone, and a 'we' attitude is essential. The value of shared thinking and selecting the right individuals is crucial for generating great ideas. Having the right people at your leadership table means experienced individuals who take ownership. Developing thinking skills and evaluating your circle are also discussed.
Shared thinking and involving diverse perspectives increases the potential for change and leads to better ideas.
Leaders must balance certainty and curiosity, embrace diverse perspectives, and create a safe space for shared thinking to thrive.
Deep dives
The Importance of Shared Thinking and Involving Others in Decision Making
Shared thinking and involving as many people as possible in the decision-making process increases the potential for change and leads to better ideas. Successful people understand the value of getting diverse perspectives and ideas on the table. Great ideas are a result of compounding many good ideas. To have a successful leadership table, it is crucial to have people whose greatest desire is the success of the idea, those who can compound and build upon others' thoughts, individuals who can emotionally handle changes in conversations, people who appreciate strengths in others while compensating for their weaknesses, those who understand their value and purpose at the table, individuals who prioritize the team's success over their own, those who can bring out the best thinking in others, people with experience, maturity, and success in the area being discussed, individuals who take ownership and responsibility for decisions made, and those who have a collaborative mindset rather than a self-centered one.
The Power of Layered Thinking and Consistent Emotional Handling
Layered thinking is crucial in leadership discussions, with ideas building upon and complementing one another. Effective leaders simplify complex ideas for widespread understanding while maintaining depth for further exploration. Consistency in emotional handling allows for productive discussions, even when faced with interruptions or disagreements. Leaders must set aside their egos and create a safe space where diverse perspectives are valued. Embracing consistency in emotional handling helps teams thrive, fostering more effective shared thinking and better problem-solving.
Evaluate the Circle of People Around You
Conducting a relationship inventory is essential. Take time to assess the people you spend time with regularly. Evaluate whether they lift you up or drag you down and encourage or discourage you. It is essential to make mindful choices about the people you surround yourself with as they significantly impact your growth and success. Identify those who consistently contribute positively and add value to your life and prioritize spending time with them. Changing your circle of influence can lead to better results and personal growth.
Embracing Leadership Certainty and Curiosity
Balancing leadership certainty and curiosity is vital. Leaders must be certain in their direction while remaining curious and open to new ideas. Leaders who embrace certainty while staying curious encourage shared thinking and innovation. Recognizing the fine line between leading with certainty and being open to alternative viewpoints and ideas is crucial. Consistency in emotional handling also plays a role in managing the challenges associated with embracing certainty and curiosity. Leaders willing to learn, adapt, and confidently listen to their team members foster an environment conducive to growth and success.
Here in the U.S., we’re one day away from Thanksgiving! This is a holiday where those closest to us gather together and reflect on the things we’re grateful for. So, as we prepare to bring people around the dinner table, we thought we’d let John Maxwell share ten types of people that need to be around your leadership table. After John’s lesson, Mark Cole and Chris Goede share some practical ways you can apply this lesson to your life and leadership.
Key Takeaways:
- The potential for change increase with participation
- Leaders are more creative in their strength zone
- Have a we attitude, not a me attitude
Our BONUS resource for this episode is the “Who to Invite to Your Leadership Table Worksheet,” which includes fill-in-the-blank notes from John’s teaching. You can download the worksheet by visiting MaxwellPodcast.com/Table and clicking “Download the Bonus Resource.”