The Dad Edge Podcast Breaking the Nice Guy Cycle ft. Perry Ohearn | Dad Edge WINSday Member Spotlight
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Mar 12, 2025 Perry Ohearn, a devoted husband and father of three boys under three, shares his inspiring journey of overcoming life's hurdles. He discusses the impact of his challenging upbringing, marked by the absence of a father figure, on his parenting. Perry opens up about recognizing his 'nice guy' patterns and the importance of seeking support to reclaim his leadership role at home. He emphasizes the healing power of community and practical steps he’s taking to invigorate his marriage while navigating the tumultuous waters of fatherhood.
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Absent Father
- Perry O'Hearn's father was an abusive alcoholic, leading to a restraining order at age six.
- This significantly impacted O'Hearn's childhood and perspective on fatherhood.
Reconnecting with Father
- At 22, O'Hearn reconnected with his homeless father, shattering his idealized image.
- This painful experience prompted self-reflection and a change in O'Hearn's life trajectory.
Becoming Your Father
- O'Hearn realized that by focusing on not becoming his father, he was inadvertently becoming him.
- He decided to actively define his own identity and pursue his own path.