Yah Lah But #750: Are Chinese Singaporean Men “Ugly”? Viral Sketch Sparks Heated Debate | Yah Lah But Live!
Dec 8, 2025
Dax (Dex), an operations lead at an education-tech startup in the UK, shares his insights as a Singaporean in London. The conversation dives into the viral debate over the attractiveness of Chinese Singaporean men, highlighting perceptions shaped by beauty standards and cultural identity. Dax discusses his work empowering graduates from underprivileged backgrounds, drawing contrasts between career expectations in Singapore and the UK. He emphasizes the importance of alternative education, community-building, and the challenges of adapting to life abroad.
AI Snips
Chapters
Transcript
Episode notes
Viral Sketch Sparks Identity Conversation
- A viral sketch claiming Singaporean Chinese men are the "ugliest" sparked online debate but revealed deeper identity questions.
- Terence and Haresh note appearance stereotypes contrast with pride in Singaporeans' global success.
Viral Post Reposted By Local Creator
- Haresh recounts the viral X post getting 5.7 million views and how a Singaporean OnlyFans creator shared it.
- The post both mocked looks and praised Singaporeans' entrepreneurial strengths, prompting mixed reactions.
Backhanded Compliment Turns Patriotic
- The OnlyFans poster framed the critique as a backhanded compliment, highlighting brains over brawn.
- Terence and Haresh see it as patriotic: acknowledging perceived flaws while celebrating Singaporean achievements.