Apple News In Conversation cover image

Apple News In Conversation

Esther Perel on the real reasons couples fight

Jan 4, 2024
Esther Perel, relationship expert, shares insights on the true motivations behind couples' fights and the challenges of modern love. She explores the unrealistic expectations in relationships today and offers tips for resolving disagreements. The importance of embracing contradictions in relationships and navigating parenthood with a supportive community is also discussed.
32:01

Episode guests

Podcast summary created with Snipd AI

Quick takeaways

  • Understanding the deeper meaning behind couples' arguments is crucial for resolving conflicts.
  • Modern relationship expectations often lead to disappointment and dissatisfaction.

Deep dives

Identifying the Underlying Issue in Couples' Fights

Couples therapist Esther Perel focuses on identifying the deeper meaning and motivation behind couples' arguments, rather than just the superficial topics. She believes that understanding what couples are fighting for is essential to resolving conflicts.

Remember Everything You Learn from Podcasts

Save insights instantly, chat with episodes, and build lasting knowledge - all powered by AI.
App store bannerPlay store banner