753: A Clandestine Crossdresser's Conundrum | Feedback Friday
Nov 18, 2022
This week's discussion dives into the complex life of a secret crossdresser mourning a lost relationship while weighing the heavy question of whether to bury evidence of their past. Family dynamics take center stage as hosts explore a listener's dilemma about fair inheritance distribution, specifically regarding a monk. They also tackle feelings of envy among siblings, addressing how these emotions influence personal well-being and family relationships. Humor and insights abound, making for a riveting exploration of identity and family ethics.
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The Secret Crossdresser
A 75-year-old man enjoys cross-dressing but keeps it secret from his wife of 47 years.
He had a secret affair with another man, who has since died, and his son discovered his cross-dressing as a child.
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A Life of Secrets
The cross-dresser's life is filled with secrets, including his orientation, affair, and grief over his lover's death.
Despite multiple traumas and secrets, he claims to be happy with his life, suggesting a potential avoidance of addressing difficult emotions.
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The Son's Discovery
The man's son discovering his cross-dressing and later engaging in similar behavior raises questions about potential influence.
Consider the impact of family secrets and the possibility of seeking therapy.
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In "Combatting Cult Mind Control" beschreibt Steven Hassan, ein ehemaliger Moon-Sektenmitglied, die Techniken der Gehirnwäsche und Manipulation, die von Kulten eingesetzt werden. Er entwickelt das BITE-Modell, ein Akronym für Verhalten, Information, Denken und Emotion, um die verschiedenen Aspekte der Kultkontrolle zu analysieren. Das Buch bietet praktische Strategien und Techniken für Aussteiger und Angehörige, um sich von der Kontrolle von Kulten zu befreien. Hassan's Arbeit ist ein wichtiger Beitrag zum Verständnis von Kultmanipulation und bietet wertvolle Einblicke in die psychologischen Mechanismen der Gehirnwäsche. Das Buch ist eine wichtige Ressource für diejenigen, die sich mit Kulten auseinandersetzen.
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When you're a secret crossdresser who's had a secret affair with another married man whose untimely death left you grieving in secret, it's got you wondering if you should bury your secret things before you die and your wife discovers what you've been hiding from her for all these years? We'll try to find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!
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Should you bury evidence of your crossdressing life and an affair you had with a man before your wife discovers it upon your death?
Your parents want to give you and your siblings an inheritance, but how do they compassionately explain excluding your brother who's living as a monk and would have to donate his share to the Church?
You envy your siblings whose lives have worked out better than yours to the point where you don't feel empathy for them when they endure terrible things — like having their houses washed out to sea in a hurricane. How can you cultivate a better attitude toward them?
You've been appointed as class prefect in your high school, but your less ambitious classmates have chosen to bully you instead of following your efforts at leadership. What can you do when your peers don't respect your authority and the administration refuses to help?
Should you remain as a partner at the large law firm where you've been for the past six years when your higher-ups treat you like a doormat, or should you pursue getting a fresh start somewhere new?
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