The Midlife Chrysalis The Success Treadmill Is Real: Here’s How to Escape
Dec 24, 2025
In this insightful discussion, Chip Conley, entrepreneur and founder of the Modern Elder Academy, shares his journey through midlife and the emptiness that can follow success. He reveals why chasing achievements often leaves us unfulfilled, emphasizing the distinction between happiness and joy. Chip discusses the power of intentional gratitude practices and how these can transform our perspective on daily life. With personal stories of growth and challenges, he encourages listeners to step off the success treadmill and rediscover what truly matters.
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The Hedonic Treadmill Of Success
- Success often becomes a hedonic treadmill that pushes you from one goal to the next without celebration.
- Chip Conley realized being 'only as good as your next success' deprives you of happiness despite external achievement.
Joy Versus Happiness
- Joy comes from within while happiness is more circumstantial and tied to achievements.
- Chip Conley prefers pursuing joy because it feels like an inside job independent of external wins.
Make Gratitude Intentional
- Practice gratitude intentionally to increase happiness by 'wanting what you have.'
- Do a regular gratitude exercise to shift from gratification to appreciation and boost contentment.