Are You Getting What You Wanted: The Christian Man's Key to the Life You Always Wanted
May 7, 2024
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Author, speaker, and Men in the Arena founder Jim Ramos joins Dr. Carol to discuss the mindset shift that transformed his life and marriage. They delve into issues faced by Christian men, emphasizing the importance of redefining masculinity, building strong male connections, and selecting a partner based on history and qualities.
Men benefit from forming deep connections with other men for support and empowerment in various life aspects.
Prioritize integrity and actions over beliefs when choosing a life partner for a healthy and respectful relationship.
Deep dives
The Importance of Genuine Connection Among Men
Men need to form meaningful connections with other men, moving beyond superficial interactions to engage missionally. By locking arms and cultivating deep relationships with other men, individuals can support and empower each other in various aspects of life. Finding like-minded buddies who offer accountability, support, and understanding is crucial.
Choosing a Partner with Integrity and Respect
When seeking a life partner, individuals should prioritize integrity, respect, and a history of honorable behavior. It's essential to observe how a potential partner's actions align with their beliefs, focusing on their character and past behaviors such as service, protection of the weak, and respect towards others.
Addressing Toxic Masculinity and Promoting Authentic Manhood
Distinguishing between toxic masculinity and genuine manhood is crucial. Embracing authentic manhood involves demonstrating courage, living with integrity, and leading with love and respect. Encouraging men to be men of honor and distinction, upholding biblical values and embracing their responsibilities.
Embracing Accountability and Encouragement Through a Community
Men in the arena provides a platform for men to connect, grow, and support each other in their journey towards authentic manhood. Through small groups, resources, and online communities, men can find accountability, encouragement, and deep relationships that empower them to navigate life's challenges and grow in their faith.
What did you expect out of life and marriage? Are you getting what you wanted? Life can get busy and overwhelming for a man in the "stress bubble" in trying to manage life, marriage, perhaps kids, career, and trying to be the man God created you to be. You could use some help. Jim Ramos, author, speaker, and founder of Men in the Arena, is Dr. Carol's guest on this episode. They talk about the major mindset shift Jim had to experience that changed everything in his life and especially in his marriage. Husbands will be both encouraged and challenged, and we've got a few words for women as well. Check out Jim Ramos and Men in the Arena on their website, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, or YouTube Check out Dr. Carol's new book Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories About God, Love, and Relationships And look around at all the supplementary resources at YourSexpectations.com. Dr. Carol loves to hear from you. You can leave a confidential message here.
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