Have you ever wanted to gather people, but then something stops you? What if I burn the apps? What if the house is a mess? Will people bring something, or chip in? Or, the biggest fear of all – what if nobody shows up?

Sarah Harmeyer, the founder of Neighbor’s Table, calls herself a “people gatherer,” and is an expert at bringing people together. Sarah offers some practical advice and much comfort. In her view people just want to be invited. As she says, we should be about blessing, not impressing.

Also – In the spirit of building more connection, we have released “Recipes for Connection.” Gathering stories and ideas from all over the country, this booklet offers all sorts of ideas for connecting over food. So whether you’re deepening relationships with old friends or creating new connections, we hope “Recipes for Connection” will be an inspiration to get together.

Download the booklet at SurgeonGeneral.gov/recipes.

(01:51) Sarah Harmeyer and why she started Neighbor’s Table

(11:29) What are the essential ingredients for gathering people?

(13:45) What are some things Sarah does to create a great vibe?

(21:43) How gathering simply comes down to caring and kindness

(25:57) Gathering is joy and service

(29:27) Who is the new Surgeon General of SoHip, Dallas?

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