DarkHorse Podcast

The Next Sexual Revolution: The 306th Evolutionary Lens with Bret Weinstein and Heather Heying

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Dec 20, 2025
Delve into the dynamics of modern relationships as Bret and Heather explore the unique challenges facing young men and women today. They dissect how cultural narratives can skew perceptions, touching on the risks of the 'right-to-be-right' mentality. Insights include the role of birth control in changing sexual strategies and the impact of porn on expectations. The discussion shifts to proposing community-driven dating apps, advocating for more engagement in physical activities for women, and questioning if new movements can reset mating norms. A thought-provoking book recommendation on friendship and AI rounds out the conversation.
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INSIGHT

Good Relationships Are Learnable

  • Bret emphasizes that high-quality relationships are discoverable and worth pursuing despite cultural misinformation.
  • He warns discussing relationship mechanics publicly risks revealing disagreements but believes it's crucial to show healthy outcomes.
INSIGHT

A Generational Divergence In Response

  • Bret argues many young men are recognizing losses from sexual revolution-era norms and seeking to rebuild better patterns.
  • He worries many young women double down on harmful ideas rather than reflecting on their role in relationship breakdowns.
ANECDOTE

Teaching Revealed Hidden Relationship Struggles

  • Heather recounts teaching many young women who wanted honest relationships but struggled to find men interested in them.
  • She suggests these quieter women are less visible online than outspoken, embittered men.
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