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#424 Bi-Curious Adventures and Threesomes with Darshana Avila

Mar 11, 2025
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Darshana Avila
Darshana Avila, a trauma-informed erotic educator known for her work on Netflix's Sex, Love & Goop, dives into the alluring realms of bi-curiosity and threesomes. She explores whether bi-curiosity is merely a phase, tackles attraction within monogamous relationships, and shares tips for solo exploration. The conversation emphasizes the importance of communication for introducing threesomes and debunks myths around same-sex experiences. Get empowered with actionable insights and resources to enhance your journey of sexual discovery and intimacy.
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INSIGHT

Women’s Sexual Fluidity Insight

  • Studies show many women have similar brain responses to same-sex and opposite-sex stimuli.
  • This supports the idea that women naturally exhibit more sexual fluidity and bi-curiosity.
ANECDOTE

Darshana's First Threesome Story

  • Darshana shared her first threesome was unexpected and disorganized during a wild college phase.
  • This phase was exploratory for her but a mere phase for friends, highlighting varied queer journeys.
ADVICE

Explore Bi-Curiosity Independently

  • Explore your bi-curiosity independently first by identifying desires and experimenting safely.
  • Negotiate clear boundaries and mutual agreements with your partner before involving them.
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