This podcast discusses topics like dealing with a mean drunk sister caring for a father with dementia, seeking anonymous therapy for trauma, setting boundaries with a family member with addiction, anecdotes about annoying employees, contradictions within incel ideology, and the importance of networking.
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Quick takeaways
The importance of choosing a suitable and responsible caregiver for a loved one with dementia, rather than relying on someone who may have negative behavior patterns such as being a mean drunk.
The possibility of receiving anonymous therapy for individuals who have been abused during involuntary commitment, allowing them to work through their trauma without fear of identity disclosure or police reporting if they mention suicidal thoughts.
The need for clear communication and boundary setting when dealing with an ex-employee who continues to show up at a workplace they no longer belong to, highlighting the importance of polite yet firm reminders of their changed status.
The significance of supporting socially anxious and disheveled friends in overcoming self-defeating behaviors and finding romance by offering encouragement, guidance, and potentially recommending professional help like coaching for social skills.
Deep dives
Addressing the Issue with Seth
The owner confronts Seth about his behavior, explaining that his actions are impacting the business and customers.
Expressing Appreciation for Seth's Past Performance
The owner acknowledges Seth's past contributions as an employee and expresses gratitude for his work.
Communicating the Impact on the Business
The owner explains that Seth's actions have created a negative environment and are affecting the success of the establishment.
Setting Boundaries and Offer a Chance to Change
The owner gives Seth a choice to either correct his behavior or be banned from the bar.
Discovering the Power of Opening Up: A Listener's Reflection
A listener shares their experience of carrying a secret for years, feeling shame and living in fear of being judged or pitied. Inspired by Jason's story on the podcast, they finally decided to speak to a therapist and share their secret with a close friend. The act of opening up brought relief and a sense of freedom, allowing them to show their true self and receive support. They express gratitude for the Feedback Friday community and appreciate the power of owning one's story.
Helping a Friend Struggling with Dating and Incel Ideology
The listener describes their coworker and friend who is struggling in dating and exhibits incel ideology. They seek advice on how to help their friend, who is loud, has a speech impediment, and lacks self-awareness. The listener acknowledges the delicate nature of addressing these issues and suggests approaching the conversation with empathy and making sure their friend is receptive to feedback. They emphasize the importance of starting with concrete habits, such as speaking volume and oversharing, and gradually working towards other areas. They also suggest considering professional coaching for social skills.
Finding Courage to Share a Deep Secret
The listener shares how they carried around a secret for years, causing shame and fear of being judged. They finally opened up to a therapist and a close friend, experiencing a sense of relief and connection. Inspired by Jason's story on the podcast, they realized the power of owning their story and living authentically, rather than hiding behind barriers. They express gratitude for the Feedback Friday community and emphasize the role of anonymity in fostering a supportive and vulnerable space.
Is your mean drunk sister really the best choice to care for your dad while he's going through the early stages of dementia? Welcome to Feedback Friday!
And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!
On This Week's Feedback Friday:
Is your mean drunk sister really the best choice to care for your dad while he's going through the early stages of dementia?
Can someone who was abused during involuntary commitment receive anonymous therapy to work through their trauma without the therapist knowing their identity or reporting them to the police if they disclose suicidal thoughts? [Thanks to clinical psychologist Dr. Erin Margolis for helping us with this one!]
How do you politely (and effectively) get it through your annoying ex-employee's skull that he no longer works for you and shouldn't show up to your wine bar six days a week?
How can you help your good-hearted but socially anxious and disheveled friend overcome their self-defeating behaviors and find romance?
A listener shares how our very own Jase's story in episode 881 helped them unload a long-time mental burden with the help of a good friend.
Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!