Friendship is often overlooked in favor of romance and family, yet it's essential for personal fulfillment. The discussion highlights the importance of cultivating genuine relationships and the challenges faced in modern society. Insights from Christian faith and ancient wisdom illustrate how to revitalize these connections. The transformative power of friendship is explored, revealing its unique ability to enhance joy and combat isolation, especially in bustling urban environments. Rediscovering the value of friendship can deeply enrich our lives.
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Friendship Is Neglected Today
Friendship is the least popular love topic today with little media attention or public interest.
In contrast, sex and family get widespread coverage due to their perceived importance and necessity.
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Friendship Is Least Natural Love
Friendship is the least natural and least biologically or socially necessary love.
It requires deliberate intention and free moral agency, unlike family or romantic love.
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Modern Challenges Hurt Friendship
Modern individualism and lack of pressure make friendship hard to prioritize.
People oscillate between unhealthy codependency and loneliness, neglecting true friendship.
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Matt Smethurst distills over 40 years of Tim Keller's teachings into a structured exploration of the Christian life. The book examines Keller's insights on topics like prayer, suffering, friendship, vocation, and intimacy with God, situating them within the biblical narrative of creation, fall, redemption, and restoration. Drawing from Keller's sermons, books, and interviews, Smethurst presents a practical guide for believers seeking to grow in their faith and apply gospel-centered principles to daily life.
The Four Loves
C.S. Lewis
In 'The Four Loves', C.S. Lewis examines the nature of love from a Christian and philosophical perspective. He categorizes love into four types based on ancient Greek words: *storge* (affection), *philia* (friendship), *eros* (romantic love), and *agape* (the love of God). Lewis discusses the characteristics, strengths, and potential pitfalls of each type of love, emphasizing the importance of understanding and balancing these loves to avoid corruption and to draw closer to God. He also explores the distinction between 'need-love' and 'gift-love' and how these concepts relate to human experiences and divine love[1][3][4].
In our times, friendship is relatively ignored. Every other kind of love, every other kind of relationship is a hot topic. Everybody is writing about romance or family, while friendship is seen as uninteresting.
And yet, friendship is absolutely vital. Do you understand how crucial it is to make, find, maintain, and develop friendships?
Let me just ask three questions: 1) why is friendship so neglected today? 2) why is it so vitally important and crucial? and 3) how can the resources of the Christian faith help us understand friendship and galvanize, energize and recover friendship?
This sermon was preached by Dr. Timothy Keller at Redeemer Presbyterian Church on April 27, 1997. Series: Redeemer Open Forums.
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