

Should I Keep My Horrible Son Out Of The Will?
Aug 2, 2025
The emotional journey of navigating family dynamics takes center stage. A parent grapples with the dilemma of a narcissistic son and estate planning. Insights emerge on the toxic effects of unresolved family issues on children. Financial support amidst impending divorce raises critical questions on intent and impact. The discussion highlights key strategies for managing trusts and ensuring children's welfare is protected, while weighing emotional decisions against financial practicality.
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Father's Family and Financial Conflict
- A father shared his story about disowning his narcissistic son and trying to protect his grandchildren financially.
- He faced challenges managing the trust and accounts to exclude his son and support the son's soon-to-be ex-wife and kids.
Manage Funds Amid Divorce
- Avoid transferring brokerage account funds directly to the ex-wife before divorce; it may become part of the divorce settlement.
- Designate money annually for children’s needs rather than giving large lump sums to avoid legal complications.
Get Professional Tax and Estate Help
- Consult a tax professional before liquidating brokerage accounts to understand capital gains and gift tax implications.
- Use coordinated advice from tax, investment, and estate professionals to protect assets and benefit grandchildren properly.