No Stupid Questions 123. What’s Wrong With Coveting?
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Nov 20, 2022 Dive into the intriguing world of emotions as the hosts explore the thin line between schadenfreude and sadism. Discover how envy, often seen as negative, can be reframed as a powerful motivator for self-improvement. They also discuss the influence of role models, particularly in shaping success and decision-making. Cultural perspectives on honor and dignity shed light on complex relationships. Plus, listener insights spark lively discussions around the themes of comparison and the seven deadly sins.
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Coveting and Role Models
- During Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur, Jews atone for many sins, including coveting, as instructed by the Ten Commandments.
- This relates to the idea of comparing oneself to others, which is generally seen as negative, yet role modeling, a form of comparison, is often encouraged.
Non-Covetous Comparison
- Comparing oneself to others is acceptable without coveting. Non-covetous comparison involves upward comparison to those we admire without negative emotions.
Schadenfreude Story
- Stephen Dubner shares a Reddit anecdote about schadenfreude, where a rude couple is punished when their child's desired movie is unavailable because Dubner had already returned it.
- This illustrates taking pleasure in a rival's misfortune.
