Madeline shares personal struggles with clutter, upgrades to a Mercedes, dental anxiety journey, comparing UK pilates to LA, and living near family. Topics include sentimental cars, social media skincare comparisons, impact of clutter on living spaces, and overcoming dental fears.
Upgrading possessions doesn't change ingrained behaviors; clutter persisted in new car.
Addressing root cause of clutter over self-discipline; considering renting separate space for cleaner habits.
Deep dives
Realization of Inherited Messy Habits
Growing up with humble and resilient cars like a 1998 Vauxhall Astra and a 2007 Peugeot 107, the speaker valued them for their reliability despite their aging appearances. Despite planning to own them for short periods, these 'junker' cars endured well beyond expectations. Transitioning to a new Mercedes, the speaker expected a cleaner environment would resolve their untidy habits. However, old behaviors persisted, leading to clutter in the new car, showcasing that upgrading possessions did not automatically change ingrained behaviors.
Living Arrangement Challenges with Family
Returning home to live with the speaker's mother brought comfort but highlighted challenges due to lacking personal space. Despite cherishing their mother, the confined living quarters led to increased clutter from the speaker's belongings. Struggling to maintain cleanliness due to an excess of possessions and shared spaces, the speaker aimed to address their stress and depression caused by the clutter in their mother's home.
Epiphany on Addressing Behavioral Patterns
Reflecting on continued messy tendencies despite various life phases, the speaker realized the consistent struggle with cleanliness was a long-standing issue. Acknowledging the harmful impact of clutter on productivity and mental well-being, the speaker considered addressing the root cause of their habits rather than solely relying on self-discipline. Contemplating creating an environment that minimizes the possibility of clutter, the speaker explored the idea of renting a separate space to develop cleaner living habits.
Facing Dental Fears and Personal Growth
Overcoming deep-rooted fear of dental procedures, the speaker navigated a complex filling process that raised concerns about potential root canal treatment. Managing dental anxiety with steady progress, the speaker found strength in facing challenges head-on, revealing personal growth amid uncomfortable situations. Despite enduring prolonged procedures and potential future treatments, the speaker maintained bravery and resilience in managing their fears and anxieties.
(Video podcast available on Spotify & YouTube) In this of Pretty Lonesome, Madeline delves into a series of personal anecdotes describing her struggles with keeping tidy, the excitement of upgrading to a new Mercedes, the apprehension of facing a fear of the dentist, and much more. Madeline reflects on the mental toll of cluttered living spaces, the decision to rent a house near family, and the journey of overcoming dental anxiety, including contemplations about potential dental procedures. She describes how pilates in the UK are much different than in Los Angeles, and why she might be living with her mother forever.
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