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New Books in Psychoanalysis

Hila Yahalom, "A Psychoanalytic Reflection on Narcissistic Parenthood and its Ramifications: The Forgotten Echo" (Routledge, 2024)

Feb 5, 2025
Hila Yahalom, a psychiatrist and psychotherapist, explores the intricacies of narcissistic parenthood in her book, shedding light on its psychological effects. She discusses how narcissism distorts familial relationships, creating defensive behavioral patterns in children. Yahalom examines the concepts of echoism and the intergenerational transmission of narcissistic traits, using case studies and historical figures like Kafka and Callas to illustrate her points. The conversation also touches on therapeutic approaches to understanding and healing from the emotional scars left by narcissistic parenting.
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  • Narcissistic parenting profoundly affects children, leading to defensive behaviors and relational disturbances that persist throughout their lives.
  • Understanding echoism reveals how individuals raised by narcissists often struggle with self-identity and default to people-pleasing behaviors.

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Understanding Narcissism and Object Relations

Narcissism is conceptualized as a disturbance in object relations, primarily originating from the relationship a child forms with their parents. This relationship affects how individuals interact with others throughout their lives, particularly in the context of narcissistic parenting. Many discussions on narcissism tend to overlook the impact on those close to narcissistic individuals, such as family members, leading to a lack of understanding of their silent suffering. By linking the theoretical underpinnings of narcissism to real-world implications, including the manifestation of relational disturbances, the discussion emphasizes the necessity of recognizing interconnected dynamics in narcissistic relationships.

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