

Hila Yahalom, "A Psychoanalytic Reflection on Narcissistic Parenthood and its Ramifications: The Forgotten Echo" (Routledge, 2024)
16 snips Feb 5, 2025
Hila Yahalom, a psychiatrist and psychotherapist, explores the intricacies of narcissistic parenthood in her book, shedding light on its psychological effects. She discusses how narcissism distorts familial relationships, creating defensive behavioral patterns in children. Yahalom examines the concepts of echoism and the intergenerational transmission of narcissistic traits, using case studies and historical figures like Kafka and Callas to illustrate her points. The conversation also touches on therapeutic approaches to understanding and healing from the emotional scars left by narcissistic parenting.
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Overview of Yahalom's Book
- Hila Yahalom's book provides a comprehensive overview of pathological narcissism, focusing on its impact on parenting and relationships.
- The book integrates diverse perspectives, from psychoanalytic theories to literature and case studies, offering a multifaceted understanding of narcissism.
Narcissism's Impact on Relationships
- Narcissism is a disturbance in object relations and self-regard, often originating in early childhood relationships.
- It significantly impacts interpersonal relationships, particularly within families, but this aspect is often overlooked clinically.
Gaslighting as a Narcissistic Tactic
- Narcissistic individuals often employ gaslighting, a manipulative tactic to make others doubt their perceptions and feelings.
- This tactic, especially harmful to children, can lead to feelings of shame, self-doubt, and a distorted sense of reality.