In this episode, I welcome Sam Jolman, a therapist, author, and father, to discuss his book, "The Sex Talk You Never Got: Reclaiming the Heart of Masculine Sexuality." Sam shares his journey into counseling, emphasizing the importance of meaningful conversations about sexuality.
We explore the impact of shame and purity culture, and the distinction between normal arousal and lust. Sam highlights the need for competent counseling and open dialogue to foster a healthier understanding of men's sexual formation. This episode is a heartfelt call to reclaim the beauty and complexity of human sexuality as God designed it.
To learn more about Sam and the book, visit SamJolman.com.
Topics Covered in this Episode:
- Importance of open conversations about sexuality
- Personal experiences and backstory of the speaker as a therapist and father
- The role of competent counseling in addressing sexual issues
- Impact of shame and purity culture on men's understanding of sexuality
- Distinction between normal arousal and lust
- Concept of the "wow response" to beauty and attraction
- Nature of sexuality as a means for emotional and relational connection
- Influence of generational patterns of shame on sexual education
- Guidance for parents on discussing sexuality with children
- Encouragement for ongoing dialogue about sexuality rather than a single conversation
More Resources:
- The Sex Talk You Never Got* by Sam Jolman
- Gateway to Freedom 3-day intensive for men
- Our Bodies Tell God's Story* by Christopher West
Related Podcasts:
- Understanding God's Design for Sex in Today's Confused Culture
- God's Design for Emotional Growth and Sexuality
- What is Sexual Discipleship?
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