In today's episode, Alexa sits down with Vanessa and Xander, authors of "Sex Talks" and advocates for improving intimacy through open conversations. Vanessa, a licensed psychotherapist with 20 years in the sex therapy field, and Xander, who brings the perspective of being married to a sex therapist, discuss their mission to take the intimidation out of intimacy. They share their personal journey, including the ups and downs they've faced, and provide actionable strategies for couples to navigate common sex and intimacy challenges. The pair highlight the importance of cultivating connection outside of sex, starting conversations about sex before problems arise, and understanding the key reasons behind low sex drive. Their approach combines psychotherapy insights with real-life experiences, making their advice relatable and practical for any couple.

Today on That Sex Chick:

Vanessa & Xander’s journey: challenges, breakthroughs, and lessons
Build a positive foundation with open sex conversations
5 key conversations every couple can have
Understanding and navigating low sex drive
Cultivating connection and intimacy outside of sex

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Instagram: @vanessaandxander
Book: Sex Talks
Podcast: Pillow Talks

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Sex Talks: Crucial Conversations for Every Relationship with Vanessa and Xander Marin